Frank Pittman

“Blame is the coward's way out.”

“The essence of manhood is responsibility.”

“People are not unfaithful because they are oversexed, but because they are underloved.”

“The greatest danger to a marriage is not conflict, but apathy.”

“Betrayal is the secret that lies at the heart of every broken relationship.”

“Fidelity is not a matter of sexual preference, but of keeping promises.”

“The major cause of infidelity is the secretiveness of it.”

“Crises are turning points. They are the best time to change things for the better.”

“The only real security in life lies in embracing insecurity.”

“Good therapy helps people get in touch with their feelings and then get over them.”

“The purpose of marriage is to make a safe place to grow up.”

“Perfection is the enemy of intimacy.”

“Masculinity is not something given to you, but something you gain. And you gain it by standing up for what you believe in.”

“Secrets are the enemy of family life.”

“The problem with being a man is that you can't really be a man until you're dead. It's an ideal that can't be achieved.”

“Marriage is not a natural institution. It's a cultural invention.”

“A crisis is a terrible thing to waste.”

“Men are not born to be men, they have to be taught.”